But Money and Hopkins do not postulate a soft world. Part of my left upper arm was pressed into genital duty here, which bothered me greatly when I came out of surgery. Is a person gay or shemale if born with both a penis and a vagina? The fact that I was already verbal required them to tread with a little more care in their quest to neutralize my hermaphrodite genitals. Intersex and orgasm time, when she asked what kinds of questions I had, I pulled out my records and asked her to review them with me. She tried very hard not to let on how Intersex and orgasm she was, but of course a twelve-year-old girlchild just senses these things. At this point they reconsidered their labeling of my gender.